NO LAW ITS ENGINEERING.............!!!!!!

No law for u is it clear??????? it was the reaction  of my mother... when I proposed my cherished dream of doing the "LAW".. how did u get that thing suddenly in mind beta???? that too after preparing 1 year for IIT????? I cant forget the reaction of her face that was  mixed with surprise and fear.. surprise i have elaborated above and fear of people that what they will say...This was the most critical problem with mother c always thinks in terms of others... But, even I was not ready to give up easily.. I told- its not sudden maa.. I have aptitude for this.. during my preparation for engineering I got to know my limitations... I cant pursue engineering anymore..
where u will study Law?? I told I have given CLAT(common law admission test) rank is not very good but i m getting two law colleges one is in Dehradoon which is considering CLAT score.. and other in Lucknow....
Lawyers life is very difficult.. they dont have stability in their initial years.. engineers starts earning at the age of 22-23.. bla bla bla..it was their argument(oder relatives for whom it was non of their buisness)My argument was I got only 15 days to prepare 4 CLAT..and got 110 out of 200... let me get admission in any avg colg vl try for CLAT next year and vl join any premier law school.. I told with brimming confidence..

1 More year????
 no way... their argument..

its better than doing engineering.. where i m not interested at all....... Moreover,finally i have to prepare for I.A.S  the subjects i vl study in law I can choose for I.A.S.. my sound argument..

that u can do with engineering subjects also... their argument

Only limited subjects are der to choose from engineering back ground... i.e mechanical,civil,chemical,electrical etc.. and no COMPUTER SCIENCE.. so In engineering I need to take up two things together one my engg subjects and other my i.a.s optionals.. pursuing law vl lessens the burden...MOREVER,I gave the example of many ias toppers who being from engg back ground chose for humanity as de had genuine interest in dat..I cited the example of MR. ANURAG SRIVASTAV AIR # 27,2007 BATCH.. he opted 4 history and pub ad.. despite graduating from mechanical engg... as he had tremendous interest in that..(I had read his full interview in competition success  review) my argument

They took this in other manner see he was an engineer still he cleared using humanity...their argument

He was interested in engineering too..so i m interested in LAW.. I m not like him.. every individual is unique  MOREOVER, he prepared after quitting his job after 6 months..
I want to do it parallel y during my graduation  days only
as it is a very tough exams.. syllabus is huge early starters have edge over others.. my argument..


now the final argument came from mother side-"what ever u want to do law or whar ever.. do it after engineering...... no more arguments...

I tried to say 3 years law after 4 years of engineering 7 years...and u dont allow me to take up integrated course of 5 yrs...also, government is planning to start I.J.S(Indian judicail services) at par with ias and ips..for which law degree is required.so,in case i don get in to ias or ips vl opt for that also.. anyway vl be related to my core interest  social services.. my visionary argument.


YOU will have your engineering degree also...their argument

who cares an engineering degree in legal practice.. my argument..


Now it was not the argument but the final  verdict given by the highest court of ma family i.e my mother ... no law no law.. prepare yourself   2 go to Bangalore... for 2nd counselling  to bag your seat in engineering....

My heart broke... even after giving sound arguments I had lost my case....A fear of again going thru the trauma of studying engineering flashed in my mind.. i got scared.perhaps it was the only thing...which i never wanted to do...and I WAS ENDING BY PURSUING IT...

At that time thought why there  is DEMOCRACY at governmental level only  not at family level????? even there also  should be democratic rights of family members.. and rights of minority family members (the youngest and having less support) should also be protected....... I almost cried without letting anyone to figure out....... and tried to find out FUTURE in my PAST..................